In fact, as long as you don't do anything to annoy others, the situation between you can't be very bad. The worst thing I can think of is that she's not interested in you and doesn't reply to your message. But even so, you won't feel embarrassed. Here are some suggestions when you start chatting with others.
1. Be cautious with these scammers
Although most of the lgbt dating sites are people who sincerely want to find a transgender dating partner, there are still many people who haven't shared the same goal with you. Some of them want to ask you for money in the name of a date; some of them want to advertise their products; others want to kill the dull time and do not take your feelings seriously. Therefore, when talking to others, you should try to distinguish them in order to prevent yourself from being deceived. Generally speaking, those who take dating seriously will know you little by little and will not rush for success. Instead, pay special attention to those who are particularly anxious to get your personal information, such as your photos, etc., or who invite you to an offline date. They may have other bad purposes.
2. Make a brief greeting
When you take the initiative to greet others, your greeting should not be too long, otherwise it will consume the patience of others to read your message. It would be best if the number of greetings could be kept within 40 words. Moreover, if you can include some of the things she mentioned in her profile in your greetings, the effect may be better. She will feel that you are really interested in her because you read her profile carefully and remember them. Your carefulness and earnestness will increase your chances of success.
Besides introducing yourself, you can also ask her some questions appropriately, but these questions should not involve some sensitive topics. Otherwise, she might pull you straight into the blacklist. Your questions should be relaxed and unimportant.
3. Reply to her as quickly as possible
If you're talking to your potential trans hookup partner for the first several times, don't pretend you're cool. When you receive her reply, you should reply to her as soon as possible. Otherwise, she will think you are a very arrogant person. Of course, this type of person will not be welcomed by others. Therefore, you should try to show your gentleman and politeness. In addition, when you reply to other people's information, you still have to control the word within 40.